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It is normal for married couples to disagree. When we disagree or get angry, try to keep the anger away from each other. We can be mad at each other, but avoid speaking angry words. Keep your anger to

Married couples often disagree, but keeping anger separate is crucial. Rather than clashing simultaneously, one partner can remain calm while the other expresses frustration. It's important to communi

However, I recommend following the first two pieces of advice first: Your parents should reduce their allowances and have them help each other at tasks. Children won't allow others to take advantage o

This text discusses effective parenting advice that emphasizes reducing allowances for children, encouraging them to help each other with chores, and teaching them responsibility from a young age. It

so, even so, they who neglect the advice of the Buddhas, both Brethren and Sisters, lay Brethren and lay Sisters, come to great misery in the four hells, places where they are punished under the five

This text emphasizes the dire consequences awaiting those who ignore the Buddha's teachings. It contrasts the plight of the heedless with the rewards of those who adhere to his guidance. The recitatio

3) They must have a life teacher or a good counselor advising them on marriage and relationships. Otherwise, it is possible that they will not be able to maintain a long relationship. 4) They must be

In marriage, the guidance of elders is vital for sustaining a long-term relationship. They provide necessary advice on spouse selection and morality, ensuring a foundation for a peaceful family life.

benefactor of the Buddha). She was the daughter of a millionaire named Dhananjaya. Visakha was to be married and would soon move from her parents' house to live with her future husband and his family.

Visakha, the daughter of millionaire Dhananjaya, received valuable ten-fold advice before her marriage on being a good daughter-in-law. This ancient wisdom emphasizes maintaining family privacy, navig

There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent and would yell at the neighbors. This ma

In this narrative, a student seeks advice from Luang Phaw to help his father quit drinking due to violent behavior caused by alcohol. The father’s addiction brings shame and fear to the family, creati

A Successful Marriage 52 other. For example, a relationship is compared with a bird in our hands. If we grasp it too tight, the bird will die and we will lose it forever. To keep it with us, we must l

The text discusses the delicate balance required in marriage, likening it to holding a bird; too tight, and it will die. It emphasizes the importance of care, sharing, and communication between spouse

A Successful Marriage For example, a relationship is compared with a bird in our hands. If we grasp it too tight, the bird will die and we will lose it forever. To keep it with us, we must learn to ho

A successful marriage requires a gentle and caring approach, much like holding a bird. Husbands and wives should please each other through sharing and sweet words, understanding their roles, and imple

Buddhist View on Sex Monica meaning of both a sexual relationship and marriage. They will prefer sexual pleasure to a meaningful relationship with someone. The heart will lose its innocence as it is f

This text examines the Buddhist view on sexual relationships, distinguishing between temporary sexual pleasure and meaningful connections. It highlights how sexual activity can impact family life, emp

A Successful Marriage enough to get married just because two people love each other. Apart from love, ones need to consider other factors as well. As mentioned above, the couple should be equal to eac

A successful marriage requires more than just love; couples must consider equality in faith, precepts, attitude, and belief. Many Buddhist couples take time to know each other before marrying, viewing

Buddhist View on Sex Monica meaning of both a sexual relationship and marriage. They will prefer sexual pleasure to a meaningful relationship with someone. The heart will lose its innocence as it is f

The text discusses the Buddhist view on sex, emphasizing the importance of meaningful relationships over mere sexual pleasure. It highlights how sexual passion can lead to negative emotions such as je

A Successful Marriage 50 enough to get married just because two people love each other. Apart from love, one needs to consider other factors as well. As mentioned above, the couple should be equal to

A successful marriage is more than just love; it requires equality in faith, precepts, attitude, and belief. Couples often take time to understand each other before marriage, which can be seen as a te

The Reality of the New Middle East The first step toward the formulation of a new policy is to understand the realities of the new Middle East as it is now. The three clusters of countries — Iran–Ira

The new Middle East is defined by three country clusters: Iran–Iraq, Lebanon–Syria, and Palestine–Israel, intertwined with issues such as nuclear proliferation and sectarianism. The U.S. faces not jus

The Relationship between Jātaka stories in Buddhist Scriptures and Those in Sculptures of Bharhut Stupa Pramaha Pongsak THANIO Abstract This paper presents a study on the relationship between Jātaka

This study delves into the intricate relationship between the Jātaka stories found in Buddhist scriptures and the sculptures at Bharhut stupa. It identifies that many of these sculptures are rooted in

When they reached Magadha, which was 112 kilometers from the capital of Kosol, Tanachai asked King Pasantikosol, "The city is small and I have a large number of retinue with me. It will be inconvenien

In ancient times, when reaching Magadha, Tanachai requested King Pasantikosol to establish a new town named Sakethu due to its convenience for his large retinue. The significance of this town is noted

There was a student who approached Luang Phaw, seeking advice in helping his father to quit drinking, because every time his father was drunk he became violent and would yell at the neighbors. This ma

A student seeks counsel from Luang Phaw to help his father quit drinking, as his father's violent behavior affects their family and reputation. Luang Phaw shares his experience with addiction in famil

bad deeds, in his last moment of life, he will experience great suffering. "As a daughter, you should stay close to your father. When the chance arises, give your father a Dhamma talk; bring him flowe

In the final moments of a father's life, a daughter is encouraged to stay close and offer Dhamma talks, flowers, and support. She should encourage daily prayer, even while lying down, and prepare alms

When it comes to physical strength, we know that we must eat nutritious and wholesome foods and exercise to have a strong, healthy and functional body. However, most people do not know how to fortify

This book compiles insightful advice from The Most Venerable Dhammajayo Bhikkhu aimed at helping individuals reinforce their mental resilience. In a world where physical strength is often prioritized,

The Buddha answered this question in one word: benevolence. That is to say mutual benevolence, the practice the Four Universal Forms of Benevolence (Sāngahavatthu), promote happiness in living togethe

The Buddha highlighted benevolence as key to mutual happiness. The Four Universal Forms include: 1. Giving (Dāna) – sharing wealth and support fosters a positive atmosphere. 2. Pleasant Speech (Piyavā

The families that have house rules, on how children should spend their time, will be able to teach these children at a young age how to make the right decisions and how not to succumb to desires. This

The text discusses the importance of house rules in shaping children's decision-making skills from a young age. It emphasizes that parents and teachers play a crucial role in guiding children to make